Notes from the Other Side

(from a Divorce Lawyer Turned Divorce Coach Who’s Also a Divorced Mom of Four)

When I first went through my divorce, I thought I was doing everything right.

We used terms like “by agreement” and “be...

If you’re newly divorced and feel like you’re carrying the weight of the world, you’re not alone.

You’re doing the emotional work, managing the logistics, and quietly wondering if you’ve made the big...

When you’re in the thick of a high-conflict divorce or custody case, it’s easy to pin all your hopes on the court.

“If I can just get this in front of a judge…”

“If I can just get a court order…”

“...

 When you’re divorcing a controlling partner, you’re not just ending a marriage—you’re stepping into a new battlefield. Many women believe that once the decree is signed, the manipulation will stop. B...

Most women don’t regret leaving “too soon.” They regret not getting prepared sooner.

When you’re facing divorce, emotions run high. You’re worried about your kids, your finances, your future. And in ...

If your biggest wish is that your ex would just leave you alone—and he won’t—that’s not an accident.

High-conflict and toxic co-parents don’t let go because they thrive on access, control, and reacti...

 Let’s be real—solo parenting during your “on” days can feel exhausting. You’re doing the work of two parents with no backup, no breaks, and no one to tag in. The mental load, the logistics, and the e...

Co-parenting is never easy—but when you’re dealing with a high-conflict ex, it can feel impossible. Every text, every school pick-up, every email exchange feels like a trap. You spend hours trying to ...

When I decided to file for divorce, I thought that once the decree was signed and I had moved out, I’d finally feel free. The endless arguments, the silent treatments, the emotional abuse, and the con...

There’s nothing lonelier than realizing your marriage is over… while still folding his socks and passing each other in the hallway.
If you're stuck under the same roof, trying to plan your exit withou...